Saturday, September 21, 2013

Ponderings #54

Dear fellow travelers,

  Thank you for all your comments on my last Pondering,  it did bring back many memories for me....then the question arose....what do I write for the next Pondering? and then life happens as it always does,    and I again became inspired.

  Life for most of us goes on for a long, long time without any bumps,  and for me I sometimes take all the routine,  this good,  for granted.  The Ill call her tomorrow..Ill do this or that tomorrow..the ho hum...tomorrow option.
  Then the bump happens...and the things to do tomorrow don't happen because what just happened takes priority for a while,  sometimes a long while.
  This was the case for my telephone confident I have, this last Monday. 
A beautiful day,  a work day for her.....then the day went upside down for her and many others.  She works in the Naval Building where the tragic shootings happened.
  Another friend had her week planned out and she in an instant fell and her foot is in a boot for a few weeks...her plans changed in an instant. 
  I know this list could go on and on....
  This isn't to set up that feeling or word of fear...just the opposite..I am writing this for myself, and for you also if you want to join in........to enjoy and love all the routine NOW moments,  live in the beautiful  NOW.  and do the things NOW that I know I said I would do tomorrow.
 Call that person and email that note.   Forgive that perceived personal infraction...it really in the world of events doesn't usually mean anything.  Probably wont even be remembered five years from now, or even two...you get my meaning. 
 I know some things may have happened to you or in your life that  may be or are  really, really difficult to resolve,  but for your life to move on in an upward joyful spiral,  moving onward and upward, not remaining stuck,   is the best option I know.
You may be saying,  "She doesn't have any idea what has happened to me. this or that happened and I cant get over it".  and yes, I don't know what has happened to you,  and for that I don't for an instant mean to minimize what may have happened.
  I just know that living life to its fullest and revealing that innate goodness within you is what is important.  Being joyful is what is important.  and that is my greatest wish for you,  to be joyful and love life--  your own life. 
    Loving and living life is what is important,  not holding grudges or anger or resentments...like one of my friends always says....Get over it....I say-  Let Go and Let God.
What ever works.... work it.   I say. 
    The world really is beautiful!   When I focus on the bird at the feeder, or my little dog smuggled up on the bed and the beautiful full moon and then the sunlight peeking through the tree leaves...and many other moments,   it is beautiful!  
   All the other not so happy  happenings , are calls for prayer.  For lessons to be learned. The focus for me most of the time after what happened, is how did I react.?
Did I react with Anger or Love?  Fear or Faith?  Resentment or Forgiveness ?
We have choice...choose wisely.  
   Every life has its valleys,  just don't set up camp,  keep on walking thru the valley, be brave, have faith,  and the hill upward appears. Honest,   
Breath, and love, and learn.     and  yes,   Smile.....This is that NOW  moment.
There is something,  more than one something of good to focus on.
For all those living in a moment calling for prayer.  You are in prayer.
You are loved, supported and cared about.

And some words from that wonderful wise women   Maya Angelou... 

In April, Maya Angelou  was interviewed by Oprah on her 70+ birthday.  Oprah asked her what she thought of growing  older.

Maya Angelou  said this:
'I've learned that no matter what  happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go  on, and it will be better tomorrow.' 

'I've learned that you can tell a lot  about a person by the way he/she handles these  three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and  tangled Christmas tree lights.'

'I've  learned that regardless of your relationship  with your parents, you'll miss them when they're  gone from your life.'

'I've learned that  making a 'living' is not the same thing as  making a life.'

'I've learned that life  sometimes gives you a second chance.' 

'I've learned that you shouldn't go  through life with a catcher's mitt on both  hands; you need to be able to throw some things  back...'

'I've learned that whenever I  decide something with an open heart, I usually  make the right decision.'

'I've learned  that even when I have pains, I don't have to be  one.'

'I've learned that every day you  should reach out and touch someone. People love  a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the  back....'

'I've learned that I still  have a lot to learn..'

'I've learned  that people will forget what you said, people  will forget what you did, but people will never  forget how you made them feel.'


What are you doing in this Now moment??


Just Pondering on the Now moment

Rev Linda Patton,  ENTC





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